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Ten Rules for a Successful Mistress

ontheknees2:

  1. Control the orgasm, and you control the male.
  2. To make any fantasy work, you must build suspense in your submissive.
  3. Stimulation plus frustration equals service and submission.
  4. Every submissive will try to test the limits of your Rule.  Never let him get away with anything.  He needs you to be both firm and consistent.
  5. Physical pain alone cannot satisfy a submissive (a masochist, yes).
  6. The more aroused your submissive is, the more pain he can take.
  7. The more effective your psychological Dominance, the less pain you will need to inflict to control and satisfy your submissive.
  8. All punishment is a balance between intensity and duration.  More intense pain should last less time.  If you want to prolong the punishment, the less intense the stimulation.
  9. Submission increases with time.  As long as you maintain firm control, the longer a session lasts, the more thoroughly submissive your male will become.
  10. Your control and pleasure are inextricably intertwined with the submission and pleasure.

soft-hearted-mistress:

prettyboyjude:

Attention GFD community

HOW DO I BECOME A GOOD BOY?

💙 Wake me up by kissing my feet in bed, letting me slowly wake up to the sound of your sweet voice saying “Good morning, Mistress”.

💙 Bring me your collar in your hands and kneel in front of me without being asked.

💙 Do small, thoughtful favors for me throughout the day like making my coffee or sending me sweet texts or pictures of yourself.

💙 Always answer me with “Yes, Mistress” or “No, Mistress”.

💙 Take off my shoes for me when I/we get home and rub my feet.

💙 Make me a small snack or a hot cup of tea just because you thought I would enjoy it.

💙 Never talk back to me. Accept my decisions with respect.

💙 Never cum without permission.

💙 Be loud in bed. I want to hear you beg and moan and talk like a slut just for me. Be vocal about exactly what you want.

💙 Offer to serve/pleasure me while we’re just doing casual things like watching TV together without expecting anything in return but to make me happy.

💙 Ask me permission for most things. From eating and drinking to what to wear and leaving the house.

💙 Be eager to please, eager to serve and eager to be whatever I want you to be at any given time. Show me how much you love being my pet.

~M