gentle-soft-small:

Noisy submissive boys in bed. That is all.

moodymoody:

thatonebl0nde:

majinbluue:

watching your titties get sucked on is therapeutic

Doing the titty sucking is therapeutic

couples therapy

jinlian:

it’s okay to have clumsy and awkward sex and it’s actually really common

the ability to laugh while you’re lying tangled and naked together bc you realize just how silly something is is really really intimate and trusting, and it’s the best feeling to be like that with someone and to be relaxed

it happens with long-term partners, it happens on hookups, and it’s rarely as bad as it’s always made out to be, except we usually think it’s bad we’re told that’s not how sex is supposed to go. but that’s not true. 

it can still be passionate and intimate while being messy and clumsy, absolutely. you don’t need to “perform well.” sex isn’t a show: it’s about feeling good. sometimes it takes experimenting to figure out what feels good, and fumbles and awkward moments and laughter is all just part of it. sometimes that’s a huge part of the fun.

dommesuggestions:

Being a male sub is punk as fuck.

Seriously. You’re giving the middle finger to every gender norm society has dictated for you, all while retaining a strong sense of self and confidence in your desires. I’m so happy you exist, because you’re all awesome. (And because I need someone who I can spank every once in a while.)

dommesuggestions:

brewmeasubmissive:

Does anyone else get that? I know that in a lot of femdom porn it’s “You’re a worthless worm, you don’t deserve me, you’re not a man, lock up your cock, you’re acting like girl and that’s shameful, wear panties because haha it’s humiliating” etc and I’m repulsed by that. For one, worm is such a sad comparison, I’d never feel aroused by anyone who I could compare to one, and secondly traditionally feminine things are not tools of humiliation – not for me. Panties are nice, but only because panties are pretty and look nice. Not because they’re a tool for degradation.

But that doesn’t mean I’m not into Humiliation. For me, humiliation is making a boy blush, making him squirm. I just don’t want to use panties or worm comparisons to get him there.

Is it more about shame? Telling a boy he’s a slut, and using his body for your own pleasure. And making him acknowledge it and wallow a little in the shame of it.

Or is it embarrassment? Telling a boy that he needs to open his mouth for you because he’s a good little boy, because he’s willing to do anything for you, because he’s easy and so very lovely to push and smack.

Or is it objectification? Making a boy present himself, a visceral lustfulness taking over you as you watch him, touch him and tell him that he’s your pretty boy, your handsome sub.

Sometimes it’s humiliation, too. That he’s just there to serve you, he can be your footstool, because that’s what he’s good for. A place to rest an ashtray on, maybe. A hot thrill of humiliation would probably run through him, then. But through it he’s still a man, a boy, still worth /something/ even if it’s just what you’ve decided he’ll be for now.

I think it’s a little bit like love, like a the sharp sting of a cane and the dull thud of a paddle. Different but so lovely.

man this is my SHIT right here

dommesuggestions:

That’s why I like boys so much, you know; there’s just so many things I can do to that beautiful body of yours. You can be a dildo for me in one moment, a tight little hole to fuck in the next. It all depends on what I want.