playfully-sadistic:

Subtle dom-things I love doing during vanilla sex:

– scratching (especially thighs, butt and back)

– leaving hickeys all over their body

– wrap my fingers oh so lightly around their throat

– hair pulling! (but careful)

– when they’re laying on their back and try to sit up, placing one hand on their chest and firmly push them into the matress again

– holding their wrists together above their head while kissing

– holding their wrists together on their back while they’re on all fours and I eat them out from beneath their body

– p r a i s e the SHIT out of them

– dirty talk (a lot) (i’m fucking good at that, too)

– give them a few slaps on their ass

– oh hey have I mentioned scratching yet?

– leaving bite marks, biting in general, using my teeth to run them over sensitive areas

– “you’re mine”

– throw them across the bed, position them however I please

– call them sweet (or not so sweet) nicknames

– “tell me what you want, whisper it into my ear”

– not so gentle grabbing

– growling and cursing in an especially low manner