When someone is dominating in a non-sexual way ❤️ such as:

foxyshadow:

notyourcurvygirl89:

firefly-flashes:

kitty-pawz:

• putting their hand on your back to lead you • paying for you • saying “no” in a stern but caring voice • opening doors or boxes for you • giving you reasonable instructions • ordering the food for you • telling you “come here” and/or pointing to the ground in front of them where they want you • fixing up your outfit/appearance (such as buttoning up your shirt or fixing your hair) • lifting your chin up • saying “look at me” •

“Look at me” completely undoes me, usually leading to blushing and fidgeting

These are what I’m looking for. The bedroom stuff is just fun and games. This is what I need.

And this is part of why when someone willingly is not understanding that D/s can be non-sexual, it frustrates me.