daddyswhores17:

A submissive can only enjoy verbal humiliation when they know that
behind your harsh words lies appreciation. You must’ve spent time making
them feel beautiful before you can start breaking them down. When a
Dominant who makes them feel loved and respected breaks out the
“pathetic fucktoy”, it’s safe, because they know that underneath lies
the “beautiful angel”. It’s not an enjoyable, kinky mindfuck when you
start calling them cuss words straight away; that’s just you insulting a
stranger.